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Life Comes Full Circle: ad infinitum
As our son Akira Kendall marks his 28th birthday, I realize: (1) our son is a man, a loving husband, a great father. Our time as parents is complete. (2) our granddaughter is no longer a baby who needs me to change her diapers. How fast babies grow up! (3) Life is indeed impermanent but…
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Wedding Anniversary #30
Dear Mimy, Before we were married 30 years ago, had a son 28 years ago, and were blessed with a lovely daughter-in-law five years ago and a precious granddaughter three years ago, there was just the two of us and the love we shared. You have given me everything I ever wanted, helped me achieve my…
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Kids Grow Up So Fast #24
Me: Hey, Melody, what are you doing with grandpa’s iPad? Melody: I changed password! Me: Oh. Okay.
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Life Comes Full Circle #11
My mom, Ruby Kiyohara, kept a file of my Dharma School projects … and yesterday granddaughter Melody made her first Dharma School project, an origami Daruma. Some day, years from now, Melody will find this stuff in a box on a dusty shelf somewhere, and wonder just what the heck Grandpa was thinking. And then she’ll…
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What is the sound of one hand clapping?
Zen Master: (slaps head)
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The Things We Keep #4: “Layla” Lighter
Mimy and I had our first date in 1981 at Layla in the Jiyugaoka area of Tokyo. For our first date, we both brought dictionaries: Japanese-English for me, English-Japanese for Mimy. Despite the language barrier, we fell in love and so I studied harder, we kept dating, and my Japanese became fluent, which became the basis…
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Finding Amida
Finding Amida in children’s laughter-silence Shhh! Just Listen, shhh!
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The Things We Keep #3: Dad’s Ray-Ban Aviator Sunglasses
In honor of my father’s memory, and in gratitude to all veterans, everywhere, who served their countries in time of need, may all human conflicts be resolved peacefully. My father wore these sunglasses during his service in the Korean War. With polarized green glass lenses, these vintage Ray-Ban Aviator Sunglasses are a classic and iconic…
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The Things We Keep #2: Holiday Bowl 250 Club Lighter
This lighter was awarded to my father Akira Kiyohara for bowling a scratch 250 game, which, as any bowler will tell you, is a big deal. Dad loved bowling and Holiday Bowl was his one night out a week with his buddies. Dad passed on his love of bowling to his children, who can all…
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Melody Dancing Machine
http://vimeo.com/107978958 Melody isn’t supposed to be dancing on the table, which explains her joy at doing so. I love the way her performance ends with, “Grandpa’s turn!”

